Our undying hope is that the mainstream-ification of anal sex will result in fewer health scare stories of people “accidentally” sitting on a cucumber. Let’s drop the shame and open the lube! The more we normalize butt stuff, the safer, healthier, and more toe-clenching it can be.
Whether it’s solo or with a partner... or two, anal sex can be intensely satisfying and surprisingly beneficial. Here are the 7 biggest benefits of anal sex.
1. Anal Orgasms are Real
Anal sex can absolutely be safe, clean, pain-free, and, most importantly, pleasurable. It is possible to orgasm while being on the receiving end of anal sex no matter your gender.
According to the Journal of Sexual Medicine, of the 31 percent of women surveyed who’d engaged in anal sex during their most recent sexual encounter, 94 percent had an orgasm. That’s because the anus is packed with loads of sensitive nerve endings, some of which are connected to your genitals.
For people assigned male at birth, anal sex can stimulate the prostate and lead to an extremely pleasurable and intense orgasm. For people assigned female at birth, anal sex activates the G-spot and A-spot. Both are located along the vaginal wall but can be indirectly stimulated during anal penetration. Like the prostate, these areas can produce full-body orgasms and when stimulated the right way, squirting, or the “mythical” female ejaculation can occur.
2. “Forbidden” Acts Are Hot
Placing a taboo on anal sex just makes it hotter for the rest of us. Surrendering to what some would consider a forbidden act feels incredibly primal. There is something about trying it for the first time that makes it that much more appealing. And the deep trust that results from enjoying anal sex with a partner? Massive turn on.
While we want to normalize conversation around anal sex to keep it safe, consensual, and pleasurable––the stigma can add an extra jolt of electricity in the bedroom.
3. It’s a Good Option During Your Period
Period sex can be magnificent. (Don’t knock it til you try it.) But menstruation is a spectrum. Those with heavy bleeding or more intense pelvic pain may be looking for another way to experience pleasure with their partners.
For some, that could mean eating pasta under an electric blanket. For others, anal sex is a great alternative for intimacy and pleasure when vaginal intercourse is off the table.
4. There’s No Risk of Pregnancy
When having anal sex, you can be entirely in the moment instead of wondering if you took your pill. With that said, there are a few VERY IMPORTANT things to note here.
If semen is spilled into the vagina or vulva, pregnancy can occur.
Secondly, like unprotected vaginal intercourse, unprotected anal intercourse is a high-risk for sexually transmitted infections, including HIV and HPV.
Use condoms during anal sex to decrease the risk of sexually transmitted infections.
5. It’s An Opportunity to Try New Toys
Anal sex means toy shopping! When prepping for anal, it’s important to not go full on penetration if it’s your first time. Start slow with fingers and slowly introduce toys like anal beads and butt plugs. It normally takes an anus 4-6 weeks to become fully prepped to receive a penis or something similar, so anal toys are great training wheels that can get you there.
It’s important to only use toys with a flared base because, fun fact, your butt is a vacuum and will suck up any object into it… And you don’t want to go to the hospital because you have a lightbulb in your colon.
6. It Increases Variety and Intimacy With Your Partner
People are pretty anal about their buttholes. When we’re uncomfortable, we clench it up tighter than Fort Knox. So to openly welcome someone around, let alone into it, is a sign of deep intimacy and trust.
Anal sex for many partners is a new frontier into strengthening their bond and opening up new doors (literally) for physical intimacy and exploration. It requires consistent and strong communication as well as complete trust. Afterall, you’re not gonna just let any ole body in your booty.
7. It Can Improve Physical and Mental Well-Being
Healthy sexual activity, be it masturbation or sex with a partner, has the opportunity to promote:
• Better sleep and a stronger immune system
• Lower risk of heart disease and stroke
• Headache relief
• Increased libido
• Menstrual cramp relief
• Inflammation reduction
• Improved circulation
• Healthier skin
• A sunshiney mood
Anal sex that stimulates the prostate may help improve erectile dysfunction, painful ejaculation, and prostatitis.
Final Thoughts
We love talking about butts and introducing people to new ways to love their butts. Trying anal sex solo or with a partner can tap into a new world of sexual satisfaction, trust, and intimacy. If you’re braving butt stuff for the first time, keeping your downstairs extra-clean with douching or a bidet toilet seat attachment can give you a major caboose confidence boost. Now go! Have sex! Eat ass! Explore! And then wash with TUSHY.
Frequently Asked Questions
Why does anal feel good?
While many first-timers worry about potential discomfort, the anus opening has an intense concentration of nerves. No matter your gender, it is possible to have an anal orgasm with the right prep.
What are the benefits of anal sex for women?
For people assigned female at birth, anal sex activates the G-spot and A-spot. Both are located along the vaginal wall but can be indirectly stimulated during anal penetration.
What are the benefits of anal sex for men?
For people assigned male at birth, anal sex can stimulate the prostate and lead to an extremely pleasurable and intense orgasm.
